In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it's easy to lose sight of the fact that today is all we truly have. The future is uncertain, and tomorrow is not promised for anyone. This simple yet profound truth should…
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Jan 21 2024
The Power of a Morning Ritual: Setting the Tone for Your Day
The Power of a Morning Ritual: Setting the Tone for Your Day by Paco Arespacochaga
The first hour after we wake up can be the most influential time of our day. How we spend these precious moments can set the…
Jan 11 2024
Here's Why Objectivity in the Face of Anger Is Essential
Here's Why Objectivity in the Face of Anger Is Essential by Paco Arespacochaga
Remaining objective in the face of anger is a challenging yet essential aspect of emotional intelligence. It requires a deliberate and conscious effort to rise above the…
Read moreJan 10 2024
Embracing the Courage to Dream Big
Embracing the Courage to Dream Big by Paco Arespacochaga
In a world that often pushes us to play it safe, to stick to the status quo, and to settle for mediocrity, where do you stand? Do you dare to dream…
Read moreJan 9 2024
Are You Someone Who Loves to Win or Hates to Lose?
The Psychology of Winning and Losing: Understanding Two Types of Mindsets by Paco Arespacochaga
In the realm of competition, whether it be in sports, business, or everyday life, two distinct types of individuals emerge: those who are driven by the…
Read moreJan 8 2024
Decide. Commit. Take Action. Stay Consistent!
The Power of Deciding, Committing, and Taking Action by Paco Arespacochaga
In the journey of life, we often find ourselves at crossroads, uncertain about the next step to take. It's in these pivotal moments that the power of decision-making, commitment…
Read moreJan 7 2024
Here's Why It’s Important to Seize Opportunities and Embrace Rejection
Seize Your Opportunity and Embrace Rejection: A Call to Action
In life, opportunities are not handed to us on a silver platter. We have to go after what we want with unwavering determination and a relentless spirit. The world belongs…
Read moreJan 6 2024
Here’s Why You Might be Unhappy in Your Relationship
by Paco Arespacochaga
Relationships are complex and multifaceted, and it's not uncommon for individuals to experience periods of unhappiness within their romantic partnerships. While every relationship is unique, there are several common factors that can contribute to feelings of dissatisfaction…
Read moreJan 5 2024
Here's Why Regular Gym Visits Are About More Than Just Fitness
The Subtle Power of Regular Gym Visits: A Non-Expert’s Perspective by Paco Arespacochaga
Let’s talk about the gym. As someone who’s definitely not a certified fitness coach, I’m here to share my thoughts on the often underestimated benefits of hitting…
Read moreJan 4 2024
Here's Why Embracing Rejection Can Be Empowering: The Power of Confronting No
The Power of Confronting No by Paco Arespacochaga
Rejection is a word that strikes fear into the hearts of many. It's a word that can evoke feelings of disappointment, failure, and even shame. However, what if we were to reframe…
Read moreJan 3 2024
Here's Why Silence Can Reveal the True Nature of a Friendship
The Power of Silence in Friendship by Paco Arespacochaga
In the intricate web of human relationships, friendships hold a special place. They are the bonds we form with others based on mutual understanding, trust, and support. However, sometimes these bonds…
Read moreJan 2 2024
Here is Why You Must Always Remain Consistent
The Power of Consistency: Reaching Your Goals through Persistence by Paco Arespacochaga
Have you ever felt like you're spinning your wheels, working hard but not seeing the results you desire? It's easy to get discouraged when progress seems slow, but…
Read moreJan 1 2024
Here Is WHY You Should Never Ever Chase What You Want.
The Power of Building Within: Attracting Success Without Chasing, An Insight from Personal Experience by Paco Arespacochaga
In the hustle and bustle of life, I've often found myself caught up in the relentless pursuit of external success. I believed that…
Read moreDec 31 2023
Here Is Why You Need to Know When to Stop Encouraging Others
Title: The Art of Encouragement: Knowing When to Let Go
Encouragement is a powerful tool that can uplift and inspire those around us. Whether it's a friend striving to achieve a personal goal or a family member pursuing a dream…
Read moreDec 29 2023
You Need to Prioritize Your Energy and Here’s Why
Not everyone deserves your attention. Not every action deserves a reaction. When you realize the importance of focusing on yourself and prioritizing what truly matters, life becomes simpler as you conserve energy for what truly counts. You don't have to…
Read moreDec 28 2023
The Power of Small Steps: Achieving Your New Year's Resolutions
As we approach the dawn of a new year, many of us find ourselves reflecting on the year gone by and contemplating the changes we'd like to make in the year ahead. New Year's resolutions are a time-honored tradition, offering…
Read moreDec 27 2023
Why It's Important to Let Go of What You Cannot Control
It's common to feel frustrated by the events happening around us in the world. Sometimes, our expectations can lead us astray. We often form a specific image of reality in our minds, and when real life doesn't align with our…
Read moreNov 6 2021
The First Day of the Rest of Your Life is NOW!
Life Begins
We all keep saying we're going to start our life today. But we press the reset button of our lives like we do the odometer reset button in our car. So, although there is no shame in starting…
Read moreOct 29 2021
In Due Time
There is a time and place for everything. You can’t just walk into your boss’ office to ask for a raise and expect to get it. Likewise, you can’t just walk into a fine dining restaurant and expect a table…
Read moreOct 28 2021
Something is Broken
If you want to know if something is wrong in your relationship, talk to your partner and voice your concern. One of two outcomes will happen. In the first outcome, they will listen to your problem, reassure you that everything…
Read moreOct 26 2021
Friendship is Important
Friends are essential. We all know that. However, it’s also good to be aware that we will lose friends along the way. Some will leave, some will die, and some friendships die on their own. However, the worse way to…
Read moreOct 23 2021
Don’t Look Behind for Reasons
Don’t Look Behind for Reasons
Things happen for a reason. Whatever that reason is depends on what you say it is. The problem is we try to find reasons to JUSTIFY our actions. We do this because it is hard…
Read moreJan 1 2019
Privileged Or Entitled... What You Need To Know NOW!
You Gotta Be One or the Other!
Seriously though, if you still carry an attitude of entitlement (from other people) and you're in your mid 20s onwards, I'll say "Shame on you!" because unless you're royalty, you're not…
Read moreDec 25 2018
Beware the Friend Zone In 2019
You are in love with another person... but he/she doesn't feel the same way. You're in a dilemma because you don't want to get turned down, embarrassed or to outright lose this special person in your life. So what…
Read moreDec 14 2018
You Shouldn’t Compromise | Relationship Basics
You shouldn’t compromise in a relationship. There is a better way. I talk about it in this vlog episode. Cheers!
com·pro·mise /ˈkämprəˌmīz/ - the acceptance of standards that are lower than is desirable.
We’ve heard it many…
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